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# Day 4 - If someone doesn't like me, I use it as motivation to get better
- URL: https://www.jacobpugmire.com/day-4-if-someone-doesnt-like-me-i-use-it-as-motivation-to-get-better/
- Published: 2024-04-28T12:14:00.000Z
- Updated: 2024-05-02T08:21:39.000Z
- Description: I find being single I have become an unstoppable god. Focusing my entire soul on bettering myself and beating my demons.
- Author: Jacob Pugmire
- Tags: Entrepreneur's Odyssey

No time to be sad.

Relationships are transitory. All will come to an end. 

Learn to accept this and let go. 

## If someone doesn't like me, I use it as motivation to get better.

How can I expect a girl to like a guy who cannot take care of her? That is a humbling feeling for me.

I want the feeling of being able to take care of the people I care about. 

Whether it be friends, family, or relationships. I want to be able to support them and be generous.

I want this feeling so bad. It is perhaps my single greatest motivator to work hard on myself and grow my business. 

(Recently I have gotten so fit. I don't sleep. I don't eat. I workout everyday. Yet my energy levels are so high. I feel happy, at peace, emotional turmoil yes, but things are better now than they have ever been. Things are all coming together.)

### How to make my first money online?

I think I want to make courses. 

I believe I am a good teacher. And the skills that I am building up are:

- public speaking, speaking to the camera
- writing, story-telling, copy writing
- video editing
- aesthetics
- humor and entertainment

If I can combine these traits, I think I can be well suited to making online courses.

### Some random things I had to solve or thought of

How to connect Wireless Me mic to phone.

Decided that I will use my phone to record what I am doing often. Use this footage as B-roll. 

The quality will be less, but I can be more dynamic in my shooting.

Decided that I will post these articles as is. If I don't finish writing it because I am busy, well so be it. At least have short bullet points of what I am doing. A record.

Today I went to the gym. Edited some photos and posted to IG. I have separate IG accounts, one for business, memes, personal, and fitness. Maybe too much, we will see.

Anyways, I should relax and sleep soon. 

I believe I will leave college.

I want to focus more on modelling. But it is fucking me up. A lot of people come and go. It is sad.

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I laid in bed for 2 hours, cannot sleep. 

Might as well work then!

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Edited 2 YouTube videos.

Will post soon.

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